Have you ever found yourself caring too much to the point it pushed your significant away?. You think that going all out for a person and loving them unconditional is something they appreciate, But then you find yourself in a pit full of lies thinking they cared deeply about you as you do to them and then you suddenly find out the reason they been with you for so long is because you were only beneficial to them! Giving them everything they wanted while they are with someone else and you didn’t even know all of this time until now?.
CARING TO MUCH IS ILLEGAL! infact caring too much is dangerous. It’s a way to get your heart quickly broken, and you find yourself in a dark space to where you can’t eat nor sleep and just mad at the world to the point you can’t function nor can you even try your hardest to crack a smile. You walk around thinking everything is so good when deep down inside you know it’s far from good. The guy or girl you loved or really liked stopped speaking to you and only used you for beneficial reasons has a whole new life with someone else that you never knew about this whole time.
It’s amazing yet sad to know that now-a-days it’s hard to find someone who cares about you as much as you care about them. Making sure that person is well taken care of before you can make sure that you yourself is well taking care of. The person who chased you around for months and finally gave a chance, to only find out you was in a fake relationship being beneficial to that person.
YOU CAN NOT LET THEM KNOW YOU CARE A LOT AND PUTTING THEM BEFORE YOURSELF! Next time you end a relationship and start over on a new one think about the things you have done that have pushed that significant other away and try to do the opposite. Now wait a minute!…. I’m not saying if you were nice to your ex boyfriend or girlfriend be mean in the next relationship. What I am saying is if you were over the top crawling on your knees and breaking your back to make sure your significant other was ok and well taking care of. Then in your next relationship still do the same but only give a little at a time. Learn the word “NO” you don’t always have to be a “Yes men” Make sure you are well taking care of before your significant other, put yourself first and do the things that make you happy before you take care of someone else!, YOU ARE ENTITLED TO PROTECT YOUR HEART! The last thing you need is another broken heart. Taking care of your self first is the way to avoid another broken Heart and going into another depressed phase. How can you make someone else happy if you are not happy within yourself.
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